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The Connected Child
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Working Together

School Partnerships

Children's emotional health does not develop in isolation — it is shaped by families, schools, and the wider digital world.

Alongside my writing and teaching, I work in partnership with secondary schools to better understand how young people experience technology, AI, and emotional pressure in real life. The aim is simple: to ensure that guidance for parents and educators reflects the world children are actually growing up in.

What This Involves

In partnership with schools, this work may include:

Listening to young people's perspectives
Understanding emotional challenges linked to digital life
Exploring what supports emotional safety and regulation
Identifying where technology helps — and where it adds pressure

Important: No individual child is identified. No personal data is shared publicly. Participation is always guided by school ethics and parental consent.

Our Approach to Partnership

Three principles that shape every school collaboration.

Real Experience

Grounding guidance in the actual world children are growing up in, rather than adult-centred theories.

Beyond Restriction

Moving past simple restriction-only approaches toward a deeper understanding of digital resilience.

Realistic Strategies

Developing supportive strategies that reflect real-life challenges and build genuine family connection.

Impact

How This Work Is Used

The knowledge gained through school partnerships is an essential part of the evidence base at The Connected Child. These insights directly inform the development of parent workshops, school training sessions, online courses, and future writing. By sharing this learning as a collective resource, we ensure that all guidance remains grounded in the actual experiences of young people today, offering families supportive and realistic strategies that reflect the complexities of the digital world.

For Parents

What Parents Can Expect

Parents connected to participating schools may be offered:

Summary insights (not raw data)
Practical guidance linked to findings
Opportunities to attend workshops or talks
Optional resources to support conversations at home

This work is always shared with care, clarity, and context.

Why It Matters

Why This Matters for Parents

Much advice about technology and mental health is based on adult assumptions, outdated models, or fear-driven narratives. Working directly with schools helps ground guidance in real experience, move beyond restriction-only approaches, and develop emotionally supportive, realistic strategies.